Houston’s Culture of Compassion - Annual Luncheon September 30, 2022

Reflection & ApprEciation

On Friday, September 30, 2022, Compassionate Houston’s Board Chair, Pam Lewis, Ph.D. greeted the audience after a two-year break due to the pandemic with an affirmation, welcoming like-hearted and like-minded friends, coming together to work “in tandem with us toward a culture of compassion over fear and connection over separation!”

Over three hours, her vision for the annual event unfolded in front of 170 guests, sponsors&donors, 10 artists & families, Interfaith Ministries for Greater Houston’s volunteers and refugees, two gifted moderators, present and past Board members, an audio and video crew, all members of Compassionate Houston’s Compassion Through the Arts committee, Rothko Chapel event volunteers, a Reverend, four Charter readers, members of our partner and co-founding partner organizations, The Briar Club staff, and the Rev. Betty Adam in spirit.

We sincerely appreciate your time to attend, your financial and in-kind support, your presence, and your engagement. Your Giving is a wonderful act, and our hearts are filled with gratitude that you see us and support our mission.

If you attended our luncheon, please enjoy a luncheon reflection and selection of photos and posters. If you are new to Compassionate Houston, we invite you to get to know us and consider supporting our mission and the many programs our all-volunteer board offers to the community.

INTRODUCING “houston’s Culture of Compassion” Program

This year’s luncheon program was fundamentally about deepening our appreciation of the experience of others, an important step for compassion to develop fully.

Our ten nominated artists with moderator and arts committee member Ken Gayle after the award ceremony. Also joined by IM’s Martin Cominsky, and the arts committee with Robin Davidson, Pam Lewis, Sneha Bhavsar (Ted Isensee missing).

Interfaith Ministries for Greater Houston (IM) with CEO and moderator Martin Cominsky, IM’s refugees and volunteers. Joined by Board member Anita Long whose film studio recorded the presented interviews and stories.

We highlighted two significant aspects of Houston’s Culture of Compassion to help us intentionally develop and strengthen empathy and compassion versus feeding fear and aggression, part of our evolutionary wiring.

Invocation and Reading of the Charter for Compassion

After Pam’s opening speech, the Rev. Kathy Rock Pfister, Canon Vicar of Christ Church Cathedral, our co-founder Rev Betty Adam’s spiritual home, presented the invocation. followed by our tradition to begin the annual luncheon with the reading of the Charter for Compassion, the foundational principles of Compassionate Houston.

Moderator and tenor, Kenneth Gayle described how the power of artistic expression builds understanding and empathy, followed by his introduction of Compassionate Houston’s initiative to identify local artists whose artistic creations forthrightly serve that mission.

Moderator and CEO of Interfaith Ministries for Greater Houston, Martin Cominsky then described how the power of storytelling about refugee lives touched by great compassion can begin a chain reaction of understanding and hope.

Board Chair Pam Lewis in her opening speech:

We are convinced that both of these presentations and the considerable courage their voices represent, will help expand our compassion and send its ripple effects outward.
— Pam Lewis, Ph.D. Board Chair

Our Charter readers, each a leader of Compassionate Houston’s partner organizations took the stage to share its principles of treating others with respect; encouraging appreciation of cultural and religious diversity; and cultivating an informed empathy with the suffering of all human beings.

Thank you, Rev. Pfister and Partner Charter Readers for your time and commitment within your organizations to thrive for a compassionate community.

 

Our Aims, Partners, and Programs

Following the invocation and Charter reading, our treasurer, Ted Isensee took the stage to share with the audience Compassionate Houston’s main objectives (see link here) and programs.

Past and Primary Programs to Meet Our Aims

Ted Isensee’s 5-slides presentation (updated to reflect post-luncheon content). Click on each photo below the main one to view all slides.

Our Network of Organizational Partners

A shout-out to our all-important network of currently 30 organizational partners, with many of their leaders in attendance, including co-founders along with Betty Adam, such as Rothko Chapel, Dawn Mountain, Christ Church Cathedral, Interfaith Ministries and Rice University’s Boniuk Institute for Religious Tolerance. Others have joined in more recent years.

All share a commitment to the Charter for Compassion’s inclusive principles, our mission, and a willingness to participate in network projects, as able.

Our next program is the upcoming Compassion Week (CW), a signature annual week that features a collaboration with our partners to offer classes, experiences, and service projects, aimed to cultivate compassion throughout Greater Houston. We successfully offered two virtual Compassion Weeks in collaboration with several partners during the pandemic.

This year, CW will take place November 13-19, beginning on World Kindness Day with the theme The Power of Kindness: Learn, Practice, Engage. Be sure you are on our newsletter list to see our partners’ offerings! (Sign up here).We already have one event on the calendar…thank you Dawn Mountain! And several partners committed! We look forward to a rich offering next month.

If you like the sound of our mission, aims and programs we have described, we would be most grateful for your support. We are an all-volunteer organization, and we do have expenses! Thank you for any support you can give or have already given.


Kenneth Gayle-

The Power of Compassionate Art/Compassionate Houston Artists of the Year Awards

Compassionate Houston was delighted and honored to introduce tenor and musical events producer Kenneth Gayle as the moderator for the arts part of the program. In August 2021, following the virtual event Compassion Through the Arts, a committee was formed made up of two Compassionate Houston Board members (Pam Lewis and Ted Isensee), as well as three local artists esteemed in the visual, literary and musical fields - Sneha Bhavsar, Robin Davidson and Kenneth Gayle.

Over five months, the committee refined a vision and goal of expanding the ripple effects of compassion in this community and beyond by highlighting and promoting the work of Houston artists who intentionally help us identify with people and situations different from our own.

This task culminated in the nomination of ten artists and the - “very difficult” - selection of one artist from each discipline to receive Compassionate Houston’s first Artist of the Year award.

Ken’s passionate speech introduced the nominees as a remarkable group of artists who exemplify the diversity of Houston. On behalf of the committee and Compassionate Houston, Ken expressed an appreciation and gratitude for the artist’s gifts to the Greater Houston community. Each nominee received an honorarium of $300 and each category winner was awarded $1000.

Compassionate Houston understands that The Arts serve an important function, and that compassionate artists have a very significant role in our world; when focused on our shared humanity they enable us to “stand in another’s shoes” in empathy…
— Kenneth Gale

Nominees and Awardees Compassionate Artists of the Year

The three nominees in VISUAL ARTS are photographer and educator Anne Houang, printmaker and muralist Kill Joy. and artist-activist Matt Manalo. The 2022 Compassionate Visual Artist of the Year went to ANNE HOUANG.

Anne Houang (left)

Kill Joy (standing)

Matt Manalo (standing)

The four nominees in LITERARY ARTS are Nigerian American performance poet and author Ayokunle Falomo, Houston’s first Black poet laureate, librettist, memoirist, and author Deborah D.E.E.P. Mouton, Dominican-American lyric poet, playwright and author, Jasminne Mendez and Jemma Leech, a self-described “silent poet with a loud voice,” speaking from the perspective of cerebral palsy. The 2022 Compassionate Literary Artist of the Year went to DEBORAH D.E.E.P. MOUTON.

The three nominees in MUSICAL ARTS are Apollo Chamber Players, a Houston-based string quartet, Phillip Hall Singers, a Houston-based vocal ensemble, and Purple Songs Can Fly, a Houston-based songwriting program located at Texas Children’s Hospital. The 2022 Compassionate Musical Artist of the Year Award went to APOLLO CHAMBER PLAYERS.

Apollo Chamber Players with Matt Detrick and Anabel Ramirez Detrick

Purple Songs Can Fly with Anita Kruse

Phillip Hall Singers with Phillip Hall

Congratulations and thank you to all nominees!

Compassionate Houston will continue to promote all 10 artists’ upcoming programs (when available) in the 2022-2023 calendar year. Join our Mailing List here for information about upcoming showcase events. Ken concluded the 1st part of the program by thanking those who’ve contributed financially to this initiative and invited others to consider donating to support the continuation of this and all other programs. Creating a Culture of Compassion requires creativity, commitment, and engagement, and we can only be effective through financial support and partnerships.

The Artist’s Poster Exhibit

Opening the luncheon an hour earlier than in past years allowed guests to network with like-and heart-minded people and mingle with all artists in front of their customized posters on display easels around the ballroom.

The posters share information about each nominee, including their own words about the importance of compassion, and were designed by Compassionate Houston’s virtual assistant Alison Pruitt. Her support is crucial to continue the quality and extent of communications and marketing efforts and was made possible by donations as part of 2021 Giving Tuesday and the 2021 Year-End Campaign.

As Pam Lewis mentioned in her opening remarks, in addition to financial and in-kind support, we count on the collaboration of our network of organizational partners, our all-volunteer working Board, and, increasingly, volunteers, to meet our aims.

walk around the poster displays

Enjoy exploring all ten posters, reading about the artist’s background, upcoming events, and their individual take on compassion in the arts. The posters are best viewed in their original size, so please click on each poster to open up a larger view.


Martin Cominsky-

Refugees and Volunteers in Houston - The power of storytelling

Following the 1st part of the program with our much-appreciated Compassionate Artist Award recognition, board member Anita Long took the stage and introduced Martin Cominsky, President and CEO of Interfaith Ministries (IM), a partner organization of Compassionate Houston.

Martin Cominsky (middle) and Kenneth Gayle receiving a heart trophy from luncheon chair Lynn Loughney

Board member Anita Long and her team with Long Film Studio recorded interviews in collaboration with IM and The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints prior to the luncheon. Luncheon guests then witnessed as the videos played on large screens how refugees made challenging transitions to Houston and refugees’ and volunteers’ lives were touched by the power of kindness and action. The audience equally enjoyed meeting and engaging with a refugee family and volunteers featured in the video in person.

For many guests, the interviews with the volunteers became the core message of this program part. A young Afghan man shared the life-changing impact of compassionate action in the most authentic way, and this young family’s gratitude could not be missed. He clearly conveyed that IM’s work on his family’s behalf had changed their lives: his wife is hoping to return to teaching after finishing her education (he is still looking for a job, but very grateful for the successes so far). The family’s relief and happiness (and hope!) were palpable.

Here are selected testimonials of audience members:

When I realized one of the Afghan families was sitting at the table right behind me, I was really glad to see that Compassionate Houston and Interfaith Ministries had them join us for the luncheon.
— Luncheon Guest

Martin has been the President and CEO of Interfaith Ministries for Greater Houston (IM) since 2015. In addition to being the largest Meals on Wheels provider in Texas, IM fosters youth and community dialogue between and among religions, operates Volunteer Houston, which matches people with their passions at local non-profit organizations, and resettles hundreds of refugees from war-torn countries.

We are honored Martin accepted our invitation to moderate the 2nd part of our luncheon program. Past and current IM refugees and volunteers with IM and our partner, The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Houston area shared their own journeys and experiences.

A good example of compassionate actions and its important impact in our community.
— Luncheon Guest
When I spoke with the young Afghan refugee, he just lit up in the short interchange we had—and in which his appreciation was so evident. He and his family were the best of ambassadors for what is possible.
— Board Member Lee Herrick

It is Compassionate Houston’s hope that luncheon guests and readers are encouraged to consider volunteering with the many refugee and resettlement organizations in our city, with our partners Interfaith Ministries and JustServe (the volunteer program of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, supporting IM) among them. Head over to our Resources page and read more about making a difference in our community by volunteering for a cause that leaves a footprint on humanity or as a researcher at Stony Brook University NY puts it: "volunteering is an active form of hope."

IM Board Member and Volunteer: “Refugees are our neighbors. And we want to help our neighbors.”

Ali Al Sudani, featured in the luncheon video, former refugee, now Senior VP Programs and Chief of Staff with IM: “We should have a unified message of welcoming and support and compassion to all refugees who are in need.”
— Sudani quoted by Elizabeth Trovall, Houston Chronicle 10/09/22

Luncheon Chair Lynn Loughney beautifully concluded the 2nd part of the program with a personal and uplifting message: “We are very happy you are here with us today. Refugees and immigrants are what have made our country great. Welcome to Houston."


Gratitude and Appreciation

We appreciate ALL for taking the time to attend and participate in this year’s luncheon, titled “Houston’s Culture of Compassion.”

Thank you to our all-volunteer, working board of directors with board chair Pam Lewis, Ph.D. Special thanks to our luncheon chair Lynn Loughney and to our communications VP Barbara Homann, who could not join us.

To our two moderators, Martin Cominsky and Kenneth Gayle for adding your unique personal touch, knowledge, time, and heart to the program parts.

To Anita Long&team at Long Films Studio for the hours of dedicated time spent creating the two videos.

To Rev. Kathy Pfister and Partner Charter Readers for your time and commitment.

To our wonderful group of volunteers with the Rothko Chapel Guild, who stepped right up to help with distributing programs on tables, and setting up registration tables, to name a few tasks throughout the entire program.

To our piano player who brought a creative flavor to a creative program. And many others named in the thank-you poster below.

And to our generous sponsors and donors of this year’s luncheon. We appreciate you!


Honoring the Rev. Betty Adam

As we are nearing the end of our luncheon reflection, we cannot leave without a tribute to our founder, the Rev. Betty Adam who passed away peacefully on June 30, 2022.

Among her many visionary projects were the founding of Brigid’s Place, a non-denominational center focused on the study and support for women, the authoring of The Magdalene Mystique: Living the Spirituality of Mary Today and the initiation of Spanish language services at the Christ Church Cathedral, her spiritual home for more than 20 years, retiring as the Canon Theologian.

In characterizing Betty in his funeral homily for her at Christ Church Cathedral, Dean Barkley Thompson noted: “… in the final decade of her life, she drew all…intuitions together in the creation of Compassionate Houston, which transcends even her Christian faith.”

We believe we honored Betty with a luncheon program close to her heart and with a dedication to carry THIS part of her legacy, her beautiful gift to the city of Houston, forward. Thank you to Long Films Studio for creating a short video with clips of Betty speaking during our virtual Compassion Through the Arts program last year. Many guests enjoyed Betty’s presence in spirit.

"It was wonderful to "see Betty in person" and to hear her voice again." “It was very, very special to see Rev. Betty Adam speak to us about compassion on the video. Thank you for that." 

Here is Founding Sponsor Pamela Kennedy with a heartfelt message: Compassion is ever more critical (as well as in short supply) in today's world, and we found the many descriptions and examples inspiring.  The reading of the Compassionate Charter reminded us that "compassion" is a verb and…part of the beautiful tributes to Betty Adam. 

I am confident that compassion, a universal response to suffering, is something we all wish to see more of in our world.
— Pam Lewis, Ph.D. Board Chair Compassionate Houston